Sunday, May 26, 2013

How to Crack Common Girl Code

Head's up.  This one is for the boys.  I realize more and more than men and women communicate differently.  Miscommunication is inevitable, but making an effort to learn communication styles and adapt your communication style is a choice.  And obviously this goes both ways.  I think we all know women could stand to be more straightforward.  In the meantime, here is some common girl code, cracked just for you!

"What are your plans for tomorrow?"  =  "Let's wrap up this conversation."


"You sound tired." (*on the phone) = "I want to get off the phone."


"It's cool." =  "It's not cool."

"I'm okay" = "I'm not okay, and I want to keep talking about this."


"Are you tired?" = "I want to see you."


"I guess so." = "I feel like we are not on the same page."


"It's okay, we don't have to hang out tonight." = "I'm afraid you don't want to see me."

"Let me know what you're thinking for later." = "I want you to take initiative and make the plans."


"How's your day?" = "Talk to me!"


"I miss you! (*while with you in person) = "I am absolutely 100% crazy about you."

"How do you feel?" = "I want to connect with you."


"When am I going to see you?" = "I want to see you asap."

"I'll text you later." = "You'd better text me first."


And my personal favorite.....


Bun on top of the head = I've had a long day.

Love,
Dylan